Running The Room

Running The Room

RUNNING THE ROOM

A Guide to Leadership, Negotiation and Disciplined Deal Making

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June 25, 2024

We Have No Hostages in Our Deals

“[Our negotiation methodology] was originally designed to cope with the toughest procurement negotiators on Earth anyway: kidnappers.”

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November 11, 2023

When in Rome, Do You

I am spending this week in Kuala Lumpur, my first time back since I closed a deal here in 2011 with one of the country’s technology providers.

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February 20, 2023

To Be a Courageous Leader

In 1943, in the midst of the Second World War, General Matthew Ridgway went toe-to-toe with then-General Dwight Eisenhower to oppose Giant II, a planned military operation.

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January 19, 2023

The Tale of the Tail

The sales landscape is densely littered with unclaimed tails.

These tails are the ones that the salesperson assures their management will come as a result of making a pricing concession on this one deal.

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December 29, 2022

Nice Guys Finish… With More

Nice people get a bad rap.

Our cultural nature is to label as much of our world as we can in order to make it easier to navigate.

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November 20, 2022

You Had Me at “Hello”

We’re often told not to make snap decisions or judge people too soon. But no one has told our brains that.

Studies have shown that people will assess your personality, and even how much they trust you, just from the first word you say to them:

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October 24, 2022

Why Negotiation Training is Bad

During a recent presentation on negotiation, a co-presenter shared a story about an executive he had worked with who, despite evidence to the contrary, claimed to be a great negotiator.

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September 14, 2022

Has Anyone Ever Done This Before?

Imagine you’re lying on an operating table as the surgeon comes into the room.

The surgeon looks around and says, “Hey, has anyone ever done this before?”

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August 9, 2022

“I Don’t Believe in Win-Win”

Anyone who tells you they don’t “believe” in win-win negotiations doesn’t understand win-win negotiations.

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July 14, 2022

The Details Matter

Early in my career I was a professional fact-checker. As a copy editor for the Albany Times-Union, part of my job was to read the articles and make sure that what we were printing was accurate.

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December 12, 2023

How You Set Up Determines How You’ll Finish

In his wonderful book, “And If You Play Golf, You Are My Friend,” Harvey Penick provides a powerful lesson for sales people and deal makers.…

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March 24, 2024

Money Doesn’t Buy Trust

If you were going skydiving, one of the details you’d be most focused on was whether the parachute was properly packed.

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I’ll Have Another

When I was in college, I worked in a cultural laboratory of human behavior that taught me a lot about people. I was a bartender. I worked in two dance…

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Where the Money Is

One of the most famous quotes in American culture was never said, yet it provides a great lesson of the importance of clarity in communication. In negotiation, words are our…

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We Have No Hostages in Our Deals

“[Our negotiation methodology] was originally designed to cope with the toughest procurement negotiators on Earth anyway: kidnappers.” That line pushed me over the edge. Kidnappers are the “toughest procurement negotiators…

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Welcome to

Running The Room!

The name for this blog comes from how I was taught disciplined sales and negotiation professionals lead when trying to close a deal: “You have to be able to run the room.”

I’ll Have Another

When I was in college, I worked in a cultural laboratory of human behavior that taught me a lot about people. I was a bartender. I worked in two dance…

Read More »

Where the Money Is

One of the most famous quotes in American culture was never said, yet it provides a great lesson of the importance of clarity in communication. In negotiation, words are our…

Read More »

We Have No Hostages in Our Deals

“[Our negotiation methodology] was originally designed to cope with the toughest procurement negotiators on Earth anyway: kidnappers.” That line pushed me over the edge. Kidnappers are the “toughest procurement negotiators…

Read More »

Everything is Negotiable

Someone said something really funny to me the other day. They sent me a document of terms that, they said, my company had to comply with. And then they told…

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Money Doesn’t Buy Trust

If you were going skydiving, one of the details you’d be most focused on was whether the parachute was properly packed. After all, the main goal in skydiving is landing…

Read More »

When in Rome, Do You

I am spending this week in Kuala Lumpur, my first time back since I closed a deal here in 2011 with one of the country’s technology providers. Malaysia is a…

Read More »

To Be a Courageous Leader

In 1943, in the midst of the Second World War, General Matthew Ridgway went toe-to-toe with then-General Dwight Eisenhower to oppose Giant II, a planned military operation. Ridgway believed the…

Read More »

The Tale of the Tail

The sales landscape is densely littered with unclaimed tails. These tails are the ones that the salesperson assures their management will come as a result of making a pricing concession…

Read More »

Running The Room