I’ll Have Another
When I was in college, I worked in a cultural laboratory of human behavior that taught me a lot about people. I was a bartender. I worked in two dance…
June 25, 2024
“[Our negotiation methodology] was originally designed to cope with the toughest procurement negotiators on Earth anyway: kidnappers.”
November 11, 2023
I am spending this week in Kuala Lumpur, my first time back since I closed a deal here in 2011 with one of the country’s technology providers.
February 20, 2023
In 1943, in the midst of the Second World War, General Matthew Ridgway went toe-to-toe with then-General Dwight Eisenhower to oppose Giant II, a planned military operation.
January 19, 2023
The sales landscape is densely littered with unclaimed tails.
These tails are the ones that the salesperson assures their management will come as a result of making a pricing concession on this one deal.
December 29, 2022
Nice people get a bad rap.
Our cultural nature is to label as much of our world as we can in order to make it easier to navigate.
November 20, 2022
We’re often told not to make snap decisions or judge people too soon. But no one has told our brains that.
Studies have shown that people will assess your personality, and even how much they trust you, just from the first word you say to them:
October 24, 2022
During a recent presentation on negotiation, a co-presenter shared a story about an executive he had worked with who, despite evidence to the contrary, claimed to be a great negotiator.
September 14, 2022
Imagine you’re lying on an operating table as the surgeon comes into the room.
The surgeon looks around and says, “Hey, has anyone ever done this before?”
August 9, 2022
Anyone who tells you they don’t “believe” in win-win negotiations doesn’t understand win-win negotiations.
July 14, 2022
Early in my career I was a professional fact-checker. As a copy editor for the Albany Times-Union, part of my job was to read the articles and make sure that what we were printing was accurate.
December 12, 2023
In his wonderful book, “And If You Play Golf, You Are My Friend,” Harvey Penick provides a powerful lesson for sales people and deal makers.…
March 24, 2024
If you were going skydiving, one of the details you’d be most focused on was whether the parachute was properly packed.
When I was in college, I worked in a cultural laboratory of human behavior that taught me a lot about people. I was a bartender. I worked in two dance…
One of the most famous quotes in American culture was never said, yet it provides a great lesson of the importance of clarity in communication. In negotiation, words are our…
“[Our negotiation methodology] was originally designed to cope with the toughest procurement negotiators on Earth anyway: kidnappers.” That line pushed me over the edge. Kidnappers are the “toughest procurement negotiators…
When I was in college, I worked in a cultural laboratory of human behavior that taught me a lot about people. I was a bartender. I worked in two dance…
One of the most famous quotes in American culture was never said, yet it provides a great lesson of the importance of clarity in communication. In negotiation, words are our…
“[Our negotiation methodology] was originally designed to cope with the toughest procurement negotiators on Earth anyway: kidnappers.” That line pushed me over the edge. Kidnappers are the “toughest procurement negotiators…
Someone said something really funny to me the other day. They sent me a document of terms that, they said, my company had to comply with. And then they told…
If you were going skydiving, one of the details you’d be most focused on was whether the parachute was properly packed. After all, the main goal in skydiving is landing…
In his wonderful book, “And If You Play Golf, You Are My Friend,” Harvey Penick provides a powerful lesson for sales people and deal makers. This is my summary: A…
I am spending this week in Kuala Lumpur, my first time back since I closed a deal here in 2011 with one of the country’s technology providers. Malaysia is a…
In 1943, in the midst of the Second World War, General Matthew Ridgway went toe-to-toe with then-General Dwight Eisenhower to oppose Giant II, a planned military operation. Ridgway believed the…
The sales landscape is densely littered with unclaimed tails. These tails are the ones that the salesperson assures their management will come as a result of making a pricing concession…